Neil Ansell unexpectedly found himself living a solitary life in the countryside, having no contact with the outside world.

He was offered the chance to live in a small cottage in the Welsh Mountains for a meager rent. This place was so secluded and untouched by man that the night sky was filled with stars, and the only neighbors were two ravens living in a nearby cedar tree for two decades.

The place he lived was quite isolated. He was on a hill farm where the only other person was an elderly tenant. It was far away from any towns or cities, and he didn’t even have a phone line. During the five years he was living there, no one ever came across his house.

According to Ansell, he got so used to being alone that when he had to buy something from the village shop, he found his voice cracking. He realized he hadn’t spoken in weeks, which became his norm.

Can you imagine living as Ansell did? How do you think you’ll adapt to being alone for so long? What will happen when you have to socialize after being alone for extended periods? Let’s discuss this further:

How Being Alone for a Long Time Can Impact Your Mental and Physical Health

We often underestimate the power of solitude and its impact on our mental and physical health. Spending time in solitude can be a great way to relax and reflect, but being isolated for too long can seriously affect our mental and physical health.

Mentally, loneliness can cause a range of issues, such as depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. It can also lead to feelings of hopelessness, despair, and a lack of motivation. People who are isolated for a long time may find it challenging to connect with others and form meaningful relationships. This can hurt their self-worth and lead to feelings of worthlessness.

Physically, being alone for a long time can have some adverse effects. Studies have shown that loneliness can increase the risk of developing chronic illnesses such as heart disease and stroke. It can also weaken  your immune system and make it harder to fight off infections. Additionally, people who are isolated for an extended period may be more likely to engage in unhealthy behaviors, such as smoking, drinking, and overeating.

What Happens When You Try to Turn On the “Social Switch” Once More After an Extended Period of Isolation

In the wake of the still ongoing coronavirus pandemic, many of us have experienced extended periods of isolation. This has meant that many of us have had to turn off our “social switch” and avoid physical contact with others. This can be incredibly difficult, leading to feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety.

However, there is hope on the horizon. As restrictions lift, it is possible to start turning on the “social switch” again. But it is crucial to remember that it can be a gradual process and that it is essential to do so safely and responsibly. 

The first step is connecting with friends and family members you trust. This could be through video calls, phone calls, or socially distanced outdoor activities. It is important to remember that connecting with people doesn’t have to involve large groups or parties. It is often much better to start small and gradually build up as you become more comfortable. This will help you to slowly adjust to socializing again.

It is also crucial to remember to take care of yourself. Make sure to get plenty of sleep, eat healthy meals, and take time for yourself. This will help you stay grounded and control your emotions as you start to re-engage in social activities.


Humans are highly social creatures by nature. We are wired to connect with other people and live in close-knit communities. We can experience profound psychological and physical effects when we are isolated for long periods. These can include depression, anxiety, and a decrease in physical health. It is essential to maintain meaningful connections with others and to find ways to interact with the broader community to avoid the adverse effects of prolonged isolation. You may also seek individual therapy that can help you. Ultimately, humans need to nurture their social connections and stay engaged with their communities.

Riverbend Life Strategies offers individual therapy for people with sensitive souls seeking help. Please schedule an appointment with us today!